The Things We Never Say

Hardback Published on: 07/05/2026
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The Things We Never Say
Beautifully bitter-sweet, character driven joy (and sorrow!)
Enter the world of Elizabeth Strout and you will find yourself in a kind place. Her characters are beautifully drawn and feel real. She celebrates the best... READ MORE
Beth at Chesterfield
The Things We Never Say
Artie of the white socks
This is a different beast to Strout's usual writing I felt. Strout usually "Shows, not tells" but in this story of the life of schoolteacher Artie Dam the... READ MORE
Tracey McHardy
The Things We Never Say
Deeply human, insightful and timely
Gosh, this one went straight for my emotions from the outset. Lovely lovely Artie Dam, a secondary-age history teacher in an American school, is a much lov... READ MORE
Rosie, Waterstones Cheltenham
The Things We Never Say
Simple and tender.
I wasn't expecting to like this as much as I did. I've never read any Elizabeth Strout, but the blurb of this book intrigued me. Our protagonist, Artie, i... READ MORE
Jesse

Synopsis

Artie Dam is a man with a secret. He spends his days teaching history to high schoolers, expanding their young minds, correcting their casual cruelties, and lending a kind word to those who need it most. He goes to holiday parties with his wife of three decades, makes small talk with neighbours, and, on weekends, takes his sailboat out on the beautiful Massachusetts Bay. He is, by all appearances, present and alive. But inside, Artie is plagued by feelings of isolation. He looks out at a world gone mad—at himself and the people around him—and turns a question over and over in his mind: how is it that we know so little about one another, even those closest to us?

And then, one day, Artie learns that life has been keeping a secret from him, one that threatens to upend his entire world. Once he learns it, he is forced to chart a new course, to reconsider the relationships he holds most dear—and to make peace with the mysteries at the heart of our existence.

With exquisite prose and profound insight, Elizabeth Strout captures the way grief reverberates through decades, the comfort found in deep friendships and the freedom that comes when we break free of our secrets. The Things We Never Say is a stunning new novel from one of our most acclaimed observers of the human heart.

Publisher information

  • Publisher: Penguin Books Ltd
  • ISBN: 9780241814307
  • Number of pages: 208
  • Dimensions: 205 x 139 x 19 mm
  • Weight: 276g
  • Languages: English

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The Things We Never Say
Stellar
Artie Dam is new to Strout's world building and yet after only a few pages you feel like you've known him forever, he fits so well. I always forget how ele... READ MORE
Katy Wheatley
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The Things We Never Say
Beautiful Writing as Always!
The Things We Never Say by Elizabeth Strout is a beautiful, deeply humane novel and a powerful exploration of what makes us human. I adored the characters ... READ MORE
Lucy EH
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The Things We Never Say
A Masterpiece Exploring the Human Condition in our Current World of Uncertainty
"Why don't people ever say anything real?" ..."And now he knew why. Because to say anything real was to say things nobody wanted to know. Or I they wanted ... READ MORE
Stephen - The Bookworm
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The Things We Never Say
A new Strout character to love
I am a huge fan of Elizabeth Strout, and much as I love Olive Kitteridge, Lucy Barton and Bob Burgess, was beyond excited to read that her new book feature... READ MORE
Jackie Murrell
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The Things We Never Say
Five stars!
The Things We Never Say by Elizabeth Strout follows Artie Dam, a history teacher whose outwardly stable life begins to unravel as he confronts isolation, h... READ MORE
The Secret Book Review
The Things We Never Say
Another fine book with new characters in a coastal New England town.
I have enjoyed all the novels from this author, some more than others. This may not be my favourite, but I am sure anyone who has enjoyed Ms Strout’s other... READ MORE
LJF
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The Things We Never Say
Somehow she just keeps getting better
Elizabeth Strout has always been the master of quiet books about people’s lives, creating such real characters and somehow keeping you completely engrossed... READ MORE
Rachel
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The Things We Never Say
another beautiful book
Another beautiful and moving book from Ms Strout who has the ability to compassionately write about the life of an ordinary person and, in doing so, remin... READ MORE
jean
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The Things We Never Say
Her best yet
Spanning several years either side of the 2024 presidential election, Elizabeth Strout’s new novel follows Artie Dam, a high school history teacher. Belove... READ MORE
Susan Osborne
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The Things We Never Say
Gorgeous Book
A lovely, gentle beautifully written book about a dedicated schoolteacher and the impact he has on those who he teaches. Wonderful characterisation and... READ MORE
Greville Waterman
The Things We Never Say
God bless Artie Dam!
Perfect, just perfect. Heart shattering & heart mending. Elizabeth Strout writes about nothing & everything. Artie Dam will remain in my heart for a very l... READ MORE
VickiB
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The Things We Never Say
Beautiful
Artie Dam is a beloved middle-aged teacher in a small town on Massachusetts Bay. Fully engaged with his students, he’s spent decades encouraging their cur... READ MORE
Bookish Walker
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The Things We Never Say
Another perfect read.
Nothing happens and everything happens in Elizabeth Strout’s usual and wonderful way. What fabulous and flawed characters. I’m always amazed£ at how well s... READ MORE
Collette Mcgaahan
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The Things We Never Say
Welcome Artie Dam- a new Strout character!
I love Elizabeth Strout, and much as I love Olive Kitteridge, Lucy Barton and Bob Burgess, was beyond excited to read that her new book features completely... READ MORE
Jackie Murrell
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The Things We Never Say
Poignant, melancholy, outstanding.
I’ve always appreciated this author’s work, but this feels like one of the most exceptional pieces of writing I’ve ever read. It’s a beautifully crafted st... READ MORE
Ophelia Gartside
The Things We Never Say
A story of one mans journey through life with pride courage and dignity
5 stars An exquisite story of a dedicated teacher living off the coast of Massachusetts during a period of cultural, political and worldwide change. Artie... READ MORE
George  Young
The Things We Never Say
Her finest novel to date
Pulitzer Prize winner, international bestseller Elizabeth Strout is known and loved particularly for her Oliver Kitteridge and Lucy Barton series of books ... READ MORE
Graham Fulcher
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The Things We Never Say
Excellent!
High school history teacher Artie Dam is devoted to his students and his subject. Married to wife Evie for many years, outwardly they seem a well suited c... READ MORE
June Walters
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The Things We Never Say
Perceptive, empathic “state of the nation” novel.
This is another quietly excellent novel by Elizabeth Strout, written with great empathy for the characters she describes and the situations in which they f... READ MORE
AliceMaudMary
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The Things We Never Say
Exquisite writing
Quite honestly I didn't know whether to give this book 5 stars for the exquisite prose or 1 star for the unrelenting misery so I've plumped for 3 stars and... READ MORE
Susan S
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The Things We Never Say
Stunning!
Thank you to the publishers for this review copy, I read it the very next day. This book had been firmly on my wishlist as I am a massive Elizabeth Strout... READ MORE
Fiona Sharp
The Things We Never Say
The Things We Never Say
It's impossible to put into words how good a writer Strout is. She gets to the depth of characters in a way that few writers can do. The Things We Never Sa... READ MORE
Maureen  Myant
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The Things We Never Say
Fabulous
Really enjoyed this book, a real joy to read, with exquisite writing, Strout allows her main character Artie to reflect and question in an individual but u... READ MORE
Claire Randolph
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The Things We Never Say
Sweet story
The Things We Never Say is a quiet but deeply affecting novel — a story of loneliness, a story of ageing, and a story of family, all gently woven together ... READ MORE
Lucy Williams
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The Things We Never Say
Another Instant Classic
Oh, to live in Elizabeth Strout’s world! Her characters are both the very best of us and a laying bare of our fragilities. She has an almost scientific han... READ MORE
Kerry Young
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The Things We Never Say
EXQUISITE PROSE; BELIEVABLE CHARACTERS
ELIZABETH STROUT – THE THINGS WE NEVER SAY ***** The story of Artie Dam, a history teacher to eleventh graders, his wife Evie, his son Robbie, and some of... READ MORE
Charles Coussens
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The Things We Never Say
No one is talking about the things that matter
This novel exemplifies the importance of literature in provoking thought and discussion amongst its readership, especially in the current political climate... READ MORE
Meg W
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The Things We Never Say
I think this might even be her best novel to date (which is saying something)
Pulitzer Prize winner, international bestseller Elizabeth Strout is known and loved particularly for her Oliver Kitteridge and Lucy Barton series of books ... READ MORE
Graham Fulcher
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The Things We Never Say
Brilliantly conceived and executed
Some books entertain, some books inform and others, like this one, cause you to pause and review the life you’ve lived in a new light. Artie is a teach... READ MORE
Andrew Smith
The Things We Never Say
Brilliant
Well, that is another brilliant piece of writing by the amazing Elizabeth Strout! Each time I read one of her books, I feel like I have explored another l... READ MORE
Ritu
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The Things We Never Say
Heartbreaking but inspiring
Artie is a middle-aged teacher, struggling with the challenges of a life that has had its share of tragedies and disappointments, culminating in the questi... READ MORE
KarensBookBag
The Things We Never Say
Magical
In The Things We Never Say we are introduced to Artie Dam, a new character in Elizabeth Strout's world. He is a middle aged school teacher who, due to m... READ MORE
Sam Whittaker
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The Things We Never Say
Brave and emotional
'The Things We Never Say' introduces a new set of characters to fans of Elizabeth Strout. Artie Dam is a teacher, long married to Evie a family therapist,... READ MORE
Clare Read
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The Things We Never Say
A dedicated teacher struggling in a fast changing world
An exquisite story of a dedicated teacher living off the coast of Massachusetts during a period of cultural, political and worldwide change. Artie, married... READ MORE
George  Young
The Things We Never Say
Another burnished gem
The Things We Never Say is another compact, burnished gem from Elizabeth Strout. Artie Dam is a beloved middle-aged teacher in a small town on Massachus... READ MORE
Bookish Walker
The Things We Never Say
An exceptional book
As soon as I started I couldn’t put it down. I don’t know any of the characters, unlike her other books and yet they are so familiar. I know no other autho... READ MORE
Caroline Pember
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The Things We Never Say
Strout’s best novel
I really loved this book: if you like pacey page-turners, though, this isn’t for you. It’s all about characterisation and connection. Artie is a lecturer... READ MORE
MrsElsie
The Things We Never Say
Beautifully written, wise, memorable.
Elizabeth Strout’s latest novel is a superb evocation of a man who comes face to face with his feelings of loneliness. He is a successful teacher, married... READ MORE
Sarah D
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The Things We Never Say
Elizabeth Strout Does It Again!
I’ve been eagerly awaiting this new book by Elizabeth Strout, but at the same time have been a little anxious as to whether I would like it as much as her ... READ MORE
Ali
The Things We Never Say
Beautifully written!
Another beautifully written and nuanced novel by the excellent Elizabeth Strout. I hoped to savour this one to make the most of its gentle pace and engagi... READ MORE
Linda Burnett
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The Things We Never Say
Elizabeth Strout at her best
Elizabeth Strout at her best. The Things We Never Say is a standalone - quite different to her other book series with overlapping characters that all colli... READ MORE
Brooklyn Halladay
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The Things We Never Say
couldn't put it down
This book is the first book, in a long time, that has made me laugh, want to cry and make my heart ache with sadness.Elizabeth does a fantastic job at brin... READ MORE
saffron ullah
The Things We Never Say
So moving
Elizabeth Strout has a unique ability to create characters that feel real. I cried throughout the book, and really wish I could read it again for the first... READ MORE
Elizabeth Marye
The Things We Never Say
Still thinking about this book daily!
This book etched itself into my heart a little bit, to be honest. I love Strout's writing and how whilst seemingly describing actions, interactions and ... READ MORE
Kat Ovtn
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The Things We Never Say
Families and secrets
5 stars 5 stars A gentle melancholic book concerning the choices we make and the secrets we hold on to. Artie, the principal character struggles to co... READ MORE
Veronica  Richards
The Things We Never Say
Beautifully written and thought-provoking
Artie Dam is a history teacher in the USA. In his struggle to come to terms with a changing world, he starts to ask deep questions about life, friends and ... READ MORE
Shirley Sinha
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The Things We Never Say
Time spent with Elizabeth Strout is always joyful
Time spent with Elizabeth Strout is always joyful, although her stories may not be. I find that she holds such mastery at compressing the human condition i... READ MORE
wendoxford
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The Things We Never Say
Thought provoking
Well, that is another brilliant piece of writing by the amazing Elizabeth Strout! Each time I read one of her books, I feel like I have explored another l... READ MORE
Ritu
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The Things We Never Say
A Different Story
Anyone expecting a further gentle instalment of life in Crosby, Maine, with her much loved characters Lucy Barton or Olive Kitteridge is in for a shock. Th... READ MORE
Is This Mutton
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The Things We Never Say
Another wonderful novel from this author
I wondered if Elizabeth Strout could surpass her previous novels with this one and she certainly did. Artie Dam is a fascinating character and I wish I ... READ MORE
Irene Mitchell
The Things We Never Say
beautifully written
This is the first book I’ve read of Elizabeth Strouts. I’m finding it hard to find the words to describe the book, I felt it was beautifully written and ha... READ MORE
Samantha  Barrett
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The Things We Never Say
The things we never say
I have read all of Elizabeth Strout’s novels and never been disappointed by the quality of her writing and her empathy with her characters and their lives.... READ MORE
SueLucie
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The Things We Never Say
Another 5 Star Gem
I am a massive fan of Elizabeth Strout's writing; she manages to encapsulate everyday lives in the most poignant & reflective manner. I don't even read the... READ MORE
Catherine Baxendale
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The Things We Never Say
Quietly understated
Elizabeth Strout's latest book "The Things We Never Say" is just quietly understated. Artie Dam is the kind of teacher that everyone aspires to be or to ha... READ MORE
Mel Pretorius
The Things We Never Say
A thoughtful, compassionate novel about grief, secrecy and the things we spend a lifetime not saying.
Was completely absorbed when I read 'The Things We Never Say' over a weekend. Elizabeth Strout is at the top of her game here: there is the same quiet prec... READ MORE
Tom Ridley
The Things We Never Say
A beautiful little book
Like all of Elizabeth Strout’s books, it’s hard to explain exactly why I loved this one so much. It’s quietly devastating, full of tenderness, love, and th... READ MORE
Jen
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